New Relationship Energy Blog on Psychology Today

In my newest blog on Psychology Today I explain new relationship energy, how it sometimes might threaten an existing relationship, and what to do about it. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201910/what-is-new-relationship-energy-and-how-deal-it

Long Distance Relationships New Blog on Psychology Today

My newest blog on Psychology Today looks at long-distance relationships and how they can last for decades. It also gives a shout out to the many awesome polyamorous conventions where people can meet others looking for similar relationships. #polyliving #sexdownsouth #relatecon #southwestlovefest #polydallasmillenium #endlesspolysummer #polyamory #dating #relationships #conventions https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201908/long-distance-polyamorous-relationships

New Psych Today Blog on Personal Growth Via Polyamory from Dr. Eli

In my newest blog on Psychology Today I explore the ways in which some people cultivate personal growth through consensually non-monogamous relationships.

New Psych Today Post on Fidelity in Polyamorous Relationships

My new post on Psychology Today looks at the ways polyamorous and other consensually non-monogamous relationships can have various kinds of fidelity — it’s not all about the sex! #article #fidelity #love #cheating #sexuality Image is of a smiling person with dark hair wearing a white t-shirt and denim shorts jumping high with outstretched armsContinue reading “New Psych Today Post on Fidelity in Polyamorous Relationships”

Against Compulsory (Non)Monogamy New Psychology Today Blog

In my newest blog on Psychology Today, Against Compulsory (Non)Monogamy, I critique both compulsory monogamy and the new mandate in some social circles that everyone should be non-monogamous.  https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201812/against-compulsory-nonmonogamy.  Image is black and white photo of an adult foot wearing a white sock trying to squish itself into a tiny white baby shoe with lacesContinue reading “Against Compulsory (Non)Monogamy New Psychology Today Blog”

Relationship Anarchy & Compersion – Two New Psychology Today Posts from Dr. Eli Sheff

  I have two new blogs on Psychology Today, the first on Relationship Anarchy, Polyaffectivity, and Chosen Families and the second on Cultivating Compersion.    

5 Differences between Polyamory and Polygyny explained in Dr. Eli Sheff’s new Psychology Today Blog

  My most recent blog on Psychology Today explores the differences between these two relationship forms when it comes to gender, history, social integration, and more! You can check it out at https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201807/what-is-the-difference-between-polyamory-and-polygamy Image is of red hearts with golden outlines floating against a black background with colored circles.

6 Myths about Polyamory, New Psychology Today blog from Dr. Eli Sheff

My most recent blog on Psychology Today looks at six common myths about polyamorous relationships. You can find it at https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201806/myths-about-polyamory Image is photo of two large dragons facing each other, reared on their hind legs and passing an egg between them with their forelegs, wings furled against their backs. There be dragons — really?  

Polyagony New Psychology Today Post from Dr. Eli Sheff

In my newest blog on Psychology Today I introduce Jillian Deri’s term polyagony and briefly summarize Deri’s findings that she published in her book Love’s Refraction. Then I detail five of the ways that the people who have participated in  my research report experiencing polyagony. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201805/polyagony-when-polyamory-goes-really-wrong The image is a photograph of a weathered grayContinue reading “Polyagony New Psychology Today Post from Dr. Eli Sheff”

Polyamorous Professionals New Psychology Today Blog

In my most recent Psychology Today blog I explain why some people might want to patronize professionals who are knowledgeable about polyamory, and suggests five places to find these PolyProfessionals.   https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door