Prevalence of BDSM: What the Research Says

Initially popularized in the United States by artists like Robert Mapelthorpe and Patti Smith, BDSM imagery gained even more public attention with mainstream books and movies from the 50 Shades of Gray series. BDSM and kinky sex have become so mainstream that now it can be difficult to tell who exactly is kinky. This blogContinue reading “Prevalence of BDSM: What the Research Says”

Distinguishing Between BDSM and Intimate Partner Violence: New Blog on Psychology Today

My newest blog on Psychology Today explores the differences between BDSM/kinky sex and Intimate Parnter Violence. While they might look the same on the surface, they are actually quite different on numerous levels! Find out how to distinguish between the two at the link below. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/202510/distinguishing-between-bdsm-and-intimate-partner-violence

New Psychology Today Blog with Tips for Polite Communication when Gender is Unclear

My newest post on Psychology Today explores some communication tips and food for thought when people can’t tell the gender of the folx in the social interaction. It has been promoted to an essential read! https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/202407/how-to-talk-to-people-when-you-dont-know-their-gender

Adult Children of Polyamorous Parents Blog on Psychology Today

My most recent blog on Psychology Today explores the three primary responses that adult children have to their parents coming out as polyamorous.

For Children with Polyamorous Parents: New Psychology Today Blog

This new blog on Psychology Today is designed to help children whose parents come out as polyamorous understand their families, with five tips on dealing with polyparents.

Body Positivity Blog on Psychology Today

Dr. Eli’s newest Psychology Today blog explains the false beliefs behind fat phobia and explores how body positivity can enhance emotional and sex lives!

Death Planning for Queer Families New Post on Psychology Today

My newest blog on Psychology Today explores the reasons that queer families must plan ahead for the deaths of loved ones or risk putting their relationships, assets, and custody of children or pets in jeopardy. Thank you to contributors Isabel Knight the Death Designer who specializes in LGBTQ+ families, and Diana Adams at the ChosenContinue reading “Death Planning for Queer Families New Post on Psychology Today”

Sex Positivity as an Antidote to Shame: New Psychology Today Blog from Dr. Eli Sheff

Check out Dr. Eli’s newest blog on Psychology Today that explains the connections between capitalism, religion, and shame. Sex positivity can combat shame, and the Positive Sexuality Day is coming September 3