My newest blog on Psychology Today explores the differences between BDSM/kinky sex and Intimate Parnter Violence. While they might look the same on the surface, they are actually quite different on numerous levels! Find out how to distinguish between the two at the link below. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/202510/distinguishing-between-bdsm-and-intimate-partner-violence