My newest blog on Psychology Today explores the differences between BDSM/kinky sex and Intimate Parnter Violence. While they might look the same on the surface, they are actually quite different on numerous levels! Find out how to distinguish between the two at the link below. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/202510/distinguishing-between-bdsm-and-intimate-partner-violence
Category Archives: Consent
Dr. Eli’s New Interviews with WebMD, London Times, and Sexology
Recently several different outlets have interviewed Dr. Eli. WebMD asked about how to define BDSM. You can find the information here https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-bdsm-sex Megan Agnew at the London Times asked about polycules. You can find the article here. https://www.thetimes.com/life-style/sex-relationships/article/polyamory-polycule-somerville-capital-lbt2vx20v Dr Moali with the Sexology podcast asked about soloamory. You can find the episode here. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep455-soloamory-the-ultimate-self-love-relationship/id1193611459?i=1000725667138
Distinguishing Between BDSM and Intimate Partner Violence Continiung Education Webinar March 20
Continuing Education Workshop for counselors, therapists, educators, nurses, and kinky folks who want to learn more about the differencdes between intimate partner violence/abuse and BDSM
Dealing with Boundary Violations Continuing Education Course with Dr. Eli Sheff
Online continuing education course about consent violations in sexual relationships for counselors, therapists, and educators coming February 28
Breath Play VS Choking New Blog from Dr. Eli Sheff on Psychology Today
What is the difference between breath play and choking? Read this Psychology Today blog to find out.
Many people enjoy choking during sex, but it can be very dangerous so breath players should be careful and learn to do it right.
Workshops and Support Groups with Dr. Eli Sheff Fall 2023
Please join me this fall for my workshop series hosted by the Pincus Center for Inclusive Treatment & Education https://tamarapincus.com/ You can find more information about these and other Pincus Center workshops at https://tamarapincus.com/events/ Mono/CNM Mixed Relationship Support Group Ongoing, every other Monday at 7 pm Eastern US time September 18 – December 11. RemainingContinue reading “Workshops and Support Groups with Dr. Eli Sheff Fall 2023”
Listen to Dr. Eli’s Interview on Modern Anarchy Podcast
Listen to Dr. Eli’s newest podcast interview on Modern Anarchy
New Podcast with Dr. Eli on MultiMonogamous
Podcast Multi-monogamous interviews Dr. Eli on sexuality, technology, artificial reproduction, Second Life, and ethics.
What Does Consent Look Like? Find Out Here
Look here for useful resources on establishing and sustaining consent
