Practical NonMonogamy Tour with Dr. Eli Sheff

Practical NonMonogamy: An empirical guide to relationship diversity and kinky sex with Dr. Eli Sheff Workshop Tour 2018 This May I will embark on an 11 city, three month road trip in the United States to provide educational and interactive workshops about polyamory and kinky sex. See the schedule below for dates in a cityContinue reading “Practical NonMonogamy Tour with Dr. Eli Sheff”

See Dr. Eli Sheff at the Southwest Love Fest April 6 to 8

  Southwest Love Fest April 6-8, 2018 Tucson, AZ ​The Southwest Love Fest is a conference on consensual non-monogamy with opportunities to learn, share and connect with other like minded people. It’s an open space to find community and learn from others’ diverse relationship experiences. It’s going to be thought-provoking, transformative and all happening in a greatContinue reading “See Dr. Eli Sheff at the Southwest Love Fest April 6 to 8”

Glam Interviews Dr. Eli About Adventurous Valentines

Zoe Weiner recently interviewed me for a piece at Glam about how people expand their sexual and relational options for Valentines days. You can find that interview here.   https://www.glam.com/women-want-to-try-out-new-things-in-bedroom/        

New York Magazine Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff

  Candice Jalili recently interviewed me for two articles for New York Magazine: Your Complete Guide to Making An Open Relationship Work, includes advice from sex therapist Courtney Watson,   In 8 Signs a Monogamous Relationship Isn’t For You, Jalili gets it almost complete right, except for number 6. Rather than jealousy, anxiety, or insecurity being “almost disloyal”Continue reading “New York Magazine Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff”

Support the Love’s Not Color Blind book tour?

Wanna get an early copy of the definitive book on how race and polyamory? Wanna support the voices and stories of people of color in polyamorous communities? Want insight on creating inclusive environments? Kevin Patterson of Poly Role Models is trying to bring the real talk with his upcoming book Love’s Not Color Blind: Race andContinue reading “Support the Love’s Not Color Blind book tour?”

Really No Jealousy? Blog on Psychology Today

  In my most recent Psychology Today blog I use fresh longitudinal data to explore the absence of jealousy and how some people who had never felt it before encounter a situation that triggers jealousy, even after years of being in CNM relationships without jealousy.   https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201711/some-people-truly-don-t-feel-jealousy Image is of three colorful birds sitting onContinue reading “Really No Jealousy? Blog on Psychology Today”

Guest Post: Virtual Reality Connects Long-Distance Relationships

This is a guest post from Neil at Virtual Reality Smash Can Your Long-Distance Relationship Benefit from Virtual Reality? Mainstream adoption of Virtual Reality is on the rise and with it comes some life changing effects.  Once considered a toy useful only for video games and porn, VR is having a large impact on theContinue reading “Guest Post: Virtual Reality Connects Long-Distance Relationships”

Let’s Talk Relationships Interviews Dr. Eli Sheff on Rebel Relationships

Dr. Kelly and Chelsea at Let’s Talk Relationships interviewed me for their show and labeled it Rebel Relationships. Check out our conversation on different types of consensual non-monogamy, kinds of love, and dealing with the possible complexities of CNM relationships.

Workshop for Non-Monogamy Mismatch with Dr. Eli Sheff and Curious Fox Presents

When Your Partner Wants Non-Monogamy and You Don’t: A Workshop for People with a (Non)Monogamy Mismatch ⏲ Tuesday September 19 2017 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM EDT  Private address at Myrtle and Troutman, Near the Myrtle-Broadway JMZ, Brooklyn, NY, United States   Get tickets here What do you do when you love someone and they want something very different fromContinue reading “Workshop for Non-Monogamy Mismatch with Dr. Eli Sheff and Curious Fox Presents”

Satisfied Relationship Coaching Client Testimonial

  MK, a client who has been coaching with me for a few months, wrote the most lovely client testimonial and gave me permission to post it here:   Dr. Sheff has been an invaluable resource for me as a relationship coach.  She has provided valuable insight and information regarding different relationship and communication structures, andContinue reading “Satisfied Relationship Coaching Client Testimonial”