Response to “I want to be poly and don’t know how to bring it up to my spouse”

  One of my readers of my Psychology Today blog recently asked a question that I have heard many times, in many different settings: “I want to be polyamorous but I am not sure how to bring it up to my spouse.” Because the question is so common, I wanted to post the response here forContinue reading “Response to “I want to be poly and don’t know how to bring it up to my spouse””

Psychology Today Blog on Household Division of Labor in Poly Families

In my most recent Psychology Today blog I explore the household division of labor in polyamorous families https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201604/who-does-the-chores  

Dr. Sheff Interviewed on MyndTalk

For a new interview with Dr. Sheff about Stories from the Polycule, check out the links below. http://www. MyNDTALK.org –( @ the homepage) –on demand all day @ www.MyNDTALK on Thursday, March 10th After the air date – show will be archived at the site under ‘Thoughtful Thursday  ‘ 89.3 FM/www.wpfwfm.org – 3-4 pm ET – on Thursday, March 10th – After Thursday, March 10th, show will be archived atContinue reading “Dr. Sheff Interviewed on MyndTalk”

Stories From the Polycule Finalist in INDIEFAB Book of the Year Awards

I am thrilled to announce that my second book, Stories from the Polycule, is a finalist in  INDIEFAB’s Book of the Year Award for 2015!!! In two categories even — Families & Relationships (Adult Non-Fiction) and Anthologies! Thanks to everyone who has helped to make this book such a success.   https://indiefab.forewordreviews.com/books/stories-from-the-polycule/    

Combating Therapeutic Bias Against CNM Clients

In my newest Psychology Today blog I complete my series on therapeutic bias. The first blog examined the incidence, sources, and impacts of therapeutic bias against polyamorists and others in consensually non-monogamous relationships, and this second blog provides three ways to combat bias and the resources to follow through.   https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201603/3-ways-combat-therapeutic-bias-against-polyamory    

Therapeutic Bias Against CNM Clients

My latest blog on Psychology Today looks at therapeutic bias against clients in consensually non-monogamous relationships.   https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201603/therapeutic-bias-against-consensual-non-monogamy    

AREWE on March 12 More than Half Sold Out

The Alternative Relationship Education Workshop Event is less than two weeks away, and seats are going fast. I will be joining a team of local mental health professionals to present a special CEU workshop for Counselors, Psychologists, and Social Workers interested in learning how to better support clients in alternative relationship styles. Despite efforts toContinue reading “AREWE on March 12 More than Half Sold Out”

Strategies to Manage Jealousy

In my first in a pair of blogs about jealousy I looked at jealousy in polyamorous and monogamous relationships. The second blog details five strategies useful for managing jealousy. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201602/five-strategies-manage-jealousy

Jealousy Blog on Psychology Today

In my most current blog on Psychology Today, I begin a two  part series on jealousy. Part 1, Confronting Jealousy, looks at different conceptions of jealousy. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201602/confronting-jealousy    

Alternative Relationship Education Workshop Event

Alternative Relationship Education Workshop Event Atlanta March 12